Dildos are non-vibrating (or sometimes vibrating) penetrative toys designed for vaginal, anal, or other forms of sexual stimulation. They come in a wide range of sizes, shapes, materials (silicone, glass, metal, wood, and more), and textures, making them among the most versatile sex toys available. Using dildos can be a solo activity, a partnered activity, or both. Some people enjoy them for penetration during masturbation, others incorporate them into partnered sex for simultaneous stimulation, double penetration, or pegging. Dildos can be held by hand, mounted to a surface via a suction cup, or used with a harness for strap-on play. The interest in dildos generally centers on the physical sensation of fullness, pressure, or targeted stimulation, though the visual and psychological aspects of incorporating a toy into a sexual encounter also contribute to the appeal. Because of their variety and accessibility, dildos are considered a foundational and widely used category of sex toy across many genders, orientations, and relationship structures.
Always clean toys before and after use according to the material's care guidelines. Porous materials such as jelly rubber or rubber can harbor bacteria, so body-safe non-porous materials (silicone, glass, stainless steel) are generally recommended. For anal use, ensure the toy has a flared base or retrieval cord to prevent loss. Use appropriate lubricant (water-based with silicone toys, any type with glass or metal). Communicate with partners about comfort, sizing, and pace. Introduce new sizes gradually to avoid discomfort or tissue strain.
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