Positions

Doggy Style

Doggy style is a sexual position in which one partner is on all fours (hands and knees, or chest lowered to a surface) while the other partner kneels or stands behind them and penetrates vaginally or anally. It is one of the most commonly practiced sexual positions across genders and orientations and does not require any specialized equipment or experience. The position allows for deep penetration, and the rear-entry angle stimulates different areas than face-to-face positions, which many people find pleasurable. Variations include the receiving partner lying flat on their stomach (sometimes called lazy doggy), using pillows under the hips for angle adjustment, or incorporating restraints and other elements for those who enjoy power dynamics. The position also allows a free hand for added clitoral, penile, or other stimulation. It works with penetrative toys, strap-ons, and various body types, making it broadly accessible. Its appeal often includes the physical sensations, the angle of stimulation, and for some people, the psychological elements of the positioning itself.

Safety & consent

Communication before and during is useful because deep penetration in this position can cause discomfort, especially if thrusting is forceful or the receiving partner has a tilted cervix or other anatomical considerations. Establish a clear signal or safeword in case the angle becomes painful. The receiving partner's wrists and knees can strain under sustained pressure, so padding (a pillow or blanket) helps. If anal penetration is involved, use adequate lubrication and go at a pace both partners agree on. Check in verbally, as eye contact is reduced in this position.

How to bring it up

  1. Prompt 1"I've been curious about trying doggy style together. Is that something you'd be open to exploring?"
  2. Prompt 2"Would you ever want to experiment with rear-entry positions? I think it could feel really different and interesting for both of us."
  3. Prompt 3"I'd love to try some new positions. Doggy style is something I've been thinking about. How do you feel about it?"

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