Perineum play refers to sexual stimulation of the perineum, the area of skin and tissue located between the genitals and the anus. In people with penises, this region sits between the scrotum and the anus and overlies the base of the prostate gland, making it a site of indirect internal stimulation. In people with vulvas, it sits between the vaginal opening and the anus. Stimulation methods commonly include manual pressure, massage, rubbing, or oral contact such as licking and kissing. Because the perineum contains a dense concentration of nerve endings and sits near several internal erogenous structures, many people find stimulation there pleasurable either on its own or as part of broader genital activity. It appears in this catalog under Oral and Worship because oral stimulation of the perineum, sometimes called a perineum kiss or taint lick, is a frequently practiced and specifically sought form of this activity. Interest in perineum play spans all genders and sexual orientations.
Explicit verbal consent is essential before initiating perineum contact, as the area is near the anus and may carry strong personal or psychological associations. Hygiene matters here: bathing beforehand reduces bacterial transfer risk. For oral play, dental dams provide a barrier option. Avoid applying strong pressure to the perineum of someone who has recently had surgery or an injury in that region. Check in during play, as pressure tolerance varies significantly between individuals and can shift with arousal level.
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